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Luck and fortune may seem like gifts that fall randomly, but more often, they are the result of being "manufactured" bit by bit. If a person stays at home for a long time, remains in the same city, repeats the same routines, social circles, and choices, doing almost the exact same things every day, the variables approach zero, and opportunities naturally won't appear out of thin air. I have hardly ever seen such a person continuously "run into good luck." On the contrary, those who seem to be very lucky often keep moving, trying new things, and interacting with new people and environments, exposing themselves to more uncertainty. What we call luck is essentially the result of you actively increasing variables, after which the odds start to tilt in your favor.

An energetic secret: for most of your day, don't rely on willpower to do things, but do them unconsciously. You need to learn not to make decisions on small matters, just do them directly without hesitation. If you want to take a shower, just take a shower; if you want to sleep, just sleep—be straightforward. Do it as soon as you think of it, and let it go once it's done. The most exhausting part is never the task itself, but the repeated hesitation and mental tug-of-war before doing it. You end up drained before even starting the task. ​​​

To make money, first get enlightened: 1. Try to avoid physical stores as much as possible. Rent, labor, inventory—all hard-earned money, and the business uncertainty is extremely high; you need to run a light-asset, high-profit business, serving a bunch of customers by yourself. 2. There are only five sources of 💰: rob, exchange, trap, occupy, demand. The easiest path for ordinary people is "exchange," trading value for money. 3. Follow the rules, and you can only earn a salary; to make big money, you must leverage the rules. ​​​

How to tell if a person will be successful in the future 1. Appears calm and composed, does not like to show off. 3. Bold; society is simple—those who are bold thrive, those who are timid starve. 4. Has courage; never fears challenges, but grows stronger and more resilient through setbacks. 5. Has a broad vision, does not fuss over trivial matters, often asserts themselves in important situations. 6. Focuses on making money and self-improvement before discussing other things. 7. Meticulous and sharp in sensing cutting-edge information, skilled at seizing opportunities. 8. Extremely persistent and determined, with a spirit of never giving up until the goal is achieved.

In your twenties, encountering one or two people who borrowed a few hundred or a few thousand from you and never paid it back are your benefactors. By middle age, you will understand the true value of this saying.

It's easy to exchange money for anything; but it's difficult to turn what you have back into money. In the stage of original accumulation, before buying anything, consider this question: can this item be turned back into money once you have it? If yes, buy it without hesitation; if no, be cautious.

There is a bottom line at work: When you realize that you can't get promoted and your salary is unlikely to increase anymore. The most important thing for you to do now: Exercise, take care of your family, and develop a side business. Drink water, charge your devices, and relax your mind. ​​​

Trading is against human nature. And the honing of human nature has no shortcuts; it can only be refined over time. Only after experiencing a long enough time, going through enough stories and pain, can one truly hone their human nature.

The essence of emotional stability is accepting the fact that "others will not act according to your thoughts." Others not replying to messages, others judging you, others not liking you, all have nothing to do with you. Your emotions can only be determined by you.

Let me tell you a secret, most of the disasters in life are man-made. First, it’s a problem with one’s own perspective, choosing the wrong people to associate with. Secondly, it’s an issue with one’s judgment, and thirdly, it’s being indecisive when encountering problematic people and not leaving... When you see someone without bad people and bad things around them, it means they are both smart and particularly ruthless!