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In your twenties, encountering one or two people who borrowed a few hundred or a few thousand from you and never paid it back are your benefactors. By middle age, you will understand the true value of this saying.

It's easy to exchange money for anything; but it's difficult to turn what you have back into money. In the stage of original accumulation, before buying anything, consider this question: can this item be turned back into money once you have it? If yes, buy it without hesitation; if no, be cautious.

There is a bottom line at work: When you realize that you can't get promoted and your salary is unlikely to increase anymore. The most important thing for you to do now: Exercise, take care of your family, and develop a side business. Drink water, charge your devices, and relax your mind. ​​​

Trading is against human nature. And the honing of human nature has no shortcuts; it can only be refined over time. Only after experiencing a long enough time, going through enough stories and pain, can one truly hone their human nature.

The essence of emotional stability is accepting the fact that "others will not act according to your thoughts." Others not replying to messages, others judging you, others not liking you, all have nothing to do with you. Your emotions can only be determined by you.

Let me tell you a secret, most of the disasters in life are man-made. First, it’s a problem with one’s own perspective, choosing the wrong people to associate with. Secondly, it’s an issue with one’s judgment, and thirdly, it’s being indecisive when encountering problematic people and not leaving... When you see someone without bad people and bad things around them, it means they are both smart and particularly ruthless!

If you spend all day in a fish market, even if you haven't touched a single fish, you'll leave with the smell of fish on you; but if you spend a day in a perfume shop, even if you buy nothing, you'll leave smelling delightful. Your environment will always leave its mark on you. Being around people who complain will fill you with negativity; being around those who always make excuses will make it hard for you to change. But if you associate with action-oriented people, you'll be inspired to move forward; and being with those who are grateful will help you see the beauty in life everywhere. The "scent" of your environment will ultimately always accompany you.

The genes of the poor like to take care of others and enjoy helping people; The rich avoid dealing with incapable people to conserve their energy; The poor are cautiously generous, while the rich are generously stingy.

I will now try to avoid getting involved with overly complicated people and situations. When I encounter things I'm not interested in, I just want to close my ears, ignore them, and refrain from commenting. Everyone has their own issues, and sometimes living in one's own world is a form of self-protection. It's important to protect one's emotions, time, and energy.

Doing one thing well is the hardest thing in life, and also the easiest thing in life. The difficulty lies in the many temptations and the ever-changing environment; the ease lies in genuinely liking it and simply persisting.